Main Image
We’d like to remind you to set one of your photos on your profile to ‘Main’. This step can be done at any time AFTER your photos have been uploaded and approved. The ‘Main’ photo is the nice one of you (just you), that appears on the search result pages and Who’s Online. If you’re shy or want to be discrete, simply upload your image and mark it ‘Private Gallery’. Only Members that you grant specific access can view your ‘Private Gallery’ image(s).

• Don't tell your whole life story. Your profile isn't a date or a relationship, it is only an introduction.
• Do emphasize in a general way who you are, what things you enjoy doing, why you want to date, and what you're looking for.

Still Not Receiving Messages or Flirts
To find your partner follow this easy guide:

• Upload a great photo of yourself to your profile. Make it a MAIN image.
• Write more than ten honest words in a grammatically correct sentence about yourself and what you are seeking.
• You must be pro-active, don't wait to be contacted. Send messages to at least ten Members.
• Log on daily to check your messages.
• Visit the chat room occasionally.

Turning Off Your Email Notifications
“I check my AdultsOnly Mailbox daily, I don't need 50 email notifications to my personal email address each day!  No problem, proceed to Account Information/Notification Settings and select ‘Don’t send me any email contact notifications’ .

Online Flirt Tips

• Try to respond to your e-mails as quickly as you can. This shows the person sending the message that you have interest and will make him or her feel good about corresponding with you.

• Start out by asking innocent questions. For example, when you first start communication with someone, you could ask, "Did you do anything special this week?" or "Do you have any great plans for the weekend?" This will help you learn more about the person without seeming nosey. After you have been communicating with someone special for a while, you can use innocent questions to see if you can find an opening in time when the two of you might meet.
• Another way to flirt is by hinting at something interesting without actually giving away too much information. Perhaps you could say something like, "After this last weekend, I had to buy a new pair of shoes." Your comment leaves much to the imagination, drawing the person into the conversation and interested in learning what you did over the weekend that required the new shoes.
• Remind yourself that just a little will go a long way. Although a good joke or pun is fun, too much of a good thing will ruin it all. Therefore, keep your messages nice and short but interesting. If a day goes by and you have not heard from that person, rather than inundate the individual’s mailbox with messages, leave one short, sweet message that provides a small hint to prompt him or her to reply.
• Finally, when you log out for the day, leave a slightly suggestive sign off. For example, most people usually write something such as, "Talk to you later" or "Have a good night." Why not take it one-step further and sign off with "It was nice talking to you" or "Wish I was saying good night in person."

Famous Quote
"Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house." * Rod Stewart